Finding Connection and Support: A–F of Foundations and Fellowship
Homeschooling doesn’t have to be a solo journey. In fact, joining a support group can transform the experience for both you and your children. These groups—whether online or in person—can provide activities, encouragement, and fellowship that lighten the load and enrich your homeschool journey.
When I first helped form a new, local homeschool group a few years ago, I quickly realized just how much goes on behind the scenes. From coordinating calendars to planning field trips, there’s more structure (and blessing!) than I expected. And while no two groups look the same, there are common elements that most families will encounter.
This series, The A-to-Z of Homeschooling Groups, will walk you through those elements so you’ll know what to expect—whether you’re joining a group, already part of one, or even starting your own.
Let’s begin with letters A–F.
Activities
From field trips to holiday parties, activities are often what attract families to a homeschool group. Since society tends to worry about the “socialization” of homeschooled children, opportunities to interact with peers are a big draw.
Some groups host activities weekly, while others gather monthly or quarterly. These might include:
- Field trips
- Holiday parties or potlucks
- Co-op classes that meet once or twice a week
But remember—just because something is offered doesn’t mean you have to join. Before signing up, ask yourself:
- Does it fit with what we’re studying?
- Is it within our budget?
- Does it provide a lesson or experience that feels important right now?
If not, it may be best to pass. Still, don’t underestimate the value of shared experiences: activities help your children make friends and give you the chance to build connections as well.
Books
Homeschool moms are famous for their overflowing bookshelves—and for sharing! Many groups create a lending library, sometimes stored in milk crates or tubs at the meeting place or in the home of a member.
Beyond borrowing, groups often host roundtables in the spring where members review books and curricula they’ve used. These discussions can save you money, spark new ideas, and even point you toward end-of-year curriculum sales as families clear out what they no longer need.
Calendar
A well-organized group keeps an orderly calendar to avoid scheduling conflicts, especially for families juggling multiple ages. Technology makes this easy—many groups link their calendars to an email list or Google account so members can check availability and suggest activities.
Larger groups usually benefit from one person managing the calendar, while smaller groups can be more relaxed. Either way, a central calendar prevents confusion and ensures everyone stays on the same page.
Dues
Running a group often involves expenses—room rentals, supplies, or mailings—which means dues may be necessary. Some groups collect yearly fees, while others rely on small love offerings for specific events. Online groups, which operate with minimal costs, often don’t require dues at all.
Encouragement
Support groups aren’t just about academics—they’re about cheering each other on. Moms especially need this! A good group may host events like science fairs, spelling bees, or family picnics, but at its heart, it provides encouragement to keep pressing forward in your homeschooling journey.
Fellowship
Homeschooling can sometimes feel isolating, but fellowship reminds us we’re not alone. Meeting with other families gives you a chance to laugh, share recipes, swap recommendations, and encourage one another spiritually.
Even if you can’t join an in-person group right now, online communities—especially on platforms like Facebook—can provide the fellowship you need.
Final Thoughts
Homeschool groups come in all shapes and sizes, but most share these key ingredients: activities, resources, organization, and relationships. They can help your children grow socially while giving you the support and encouragement to thrive as a homeschool mom.
If you’ve been homeschooling alone, consider finding a group in your area (or online). You’ll likely discover that fellowship with like-minded families not only enriches your homeschool—it strengthens your faith and joy in the journey.
Stay tuned for the next installment, where we’ll explore letters G–M and uncover even more ways homeschool groups can bless your family!
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